HOME is where……
How a HOME should feel like to someone??
I have tried to catch some thoughts on how a HOME should feel like. Pardon me if the points sound so idealistic. I couldn’t stop thinking. I am making this list from a very personal point of view. All I can say, Making hopes doesn’t know any limits……
Home is where you are not seen as a failure.
Home is where when you are not around, you are remembered. Your belongings are being taken care of. Not forgotten and covered with dust.
Home is where you do get disciplined. But when you need, you also get defended.
Home is where caring comes first, money comes second.
Home is where no one faces aggression by other members.
Home is where everyone can be visible.
Home is where problems get solved. Not used as a weapon to destroy a person.
Home is where cries will happen. But smile will win always.
Home is where there will be rules but breaking the rules, replacing old ones are included with them.
Home is where even if you have made some mistakes, you are forgiven. Not reminded the mistakes over every topic. Not judging present with past or not happened yet future.
Home is where inside job is considered important as well as outside job. Inside jobs also require time and energy to finish them just like their counter parts.
Home is where you can sleep or rest uninterruptedly. Doors don’t get closed or opened harshly, loudly.
Home is where your dreams are not shattered. They get encouraged.
Home is where your enthusiasm about life doesn’t get killed.
Home is where you can share your pain without the fear of shaming.
Home is where issues get listened, solved. They don’t get created. They don’t get shut.
Home is where you are allowed to make mistakes. You don’t get judged by those mistakes until your deathbed. Your learning are appreciated.
Home is where you get pampered. Not talking about being spoiled. Just pampered enough to grow by oneself.
Home is where you are not invisible. Your efforts are not invisible.
Home is where you get genuine support. Not the fakes. When in need most, they act like that those never existed.
Home is where you don’t get bullied. You are taken care of.
Home is where you get nurtured. Not beaten up.
Home is where you can be alive. Not a dead body.
Home is where you can create energy. Not get run out or sucked of energy.
